Dear Sapphire Welka, "You know how basically they say, don't look at how your partner treats you, look at how he treats others, and thats how he'll eventually treat you?" I've been concerned about you since approximately June 13th (of course even previously, but most significantly since events at that time) at the height in which your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice outed herself as a heartless and toxic pathological liar. Despite that Sapphire Welka may also be heartless, as it seems, and presumably also narcissistic, or at least learnedly narcissistic, such that Sapphire Welka may be recognized as narcissistic also, I encourage for Sapphire Welka to break free from the patterns of abuse, and to restore a sense of sanity for which to strengthen and respect herself. Be strong Sapphire Welka. Respect yourself. Break away from yuor abusive family, give them time to realize their abuse and cruelty: (e.g. more than 1 second, more than 1 minute, more than 1 hour, more than 1 day, more than 1 week, more than 1 month, more than 1 year, more than a decade, etc.). You are strong and a responsible person and can take care of yourself just like any other human can, and you can do so with dignity and integrity and prosperity knowing that you are your own leader, and sustainably so, without any human to discredit or undermine you, especially not a toxic narcissist. It's so simple to pass your CCAC Allegheny Campus classes, to get a job, to get your driver's license, to buy or lease your own vehicle, to rent your own apartment or buy a house. And it is up to you to do those things. Especially you will then have earned it, and courageously and bravely so. Again, be strong. Respect yourself! Sincerely, Jason Khanlar