Sunday, March 27, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

"You don't hate. Only the unloved hate."



Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Saturday, March 26, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

Dear Lorraine Heagy and Janice Heagy, You are the aunts of Sapphire Welka
Sapphire deserves to be respected. She deserves to have a voice, deserves to have confidence. Sapphire has civil rights and civil liberties to be honest with integrity and dignity. She has the right to be respected and the right to respect others.
Sapphire Welka's biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice has significantly bullied Sapphire. Stephanie has lied to Sapphire, to me, to you, to my mother, to my friends, to her friends, to strangers. Stephanie has intimiated and threatened Sapphire. Stephanie has exhibited hatemongering, fearmongering, hostility, vulgarity, and many other abuses.
Sapphire has cried out that she is afraid of her mother. Even Sapphire has referred to her aunts as tyrants. Sapphire has been disrespected. Sapphire has cried out that she does not know how to break free from the abuse.
Many of Sapphire's friends have enabled and contributed to the abuse. Sapphire's mother organizes the abuse. Stephanie administrates Sapphire's facebook account, her e-mail account, her other Internet accounts. Stephanie dictates who Sapphire can and cannot communicate with. Sapphire is afraid to speak with re:solv emergency crisis network (http://www.upmc.com/Services/behavioral-health/Pages/resolve-crisis-network.aspx)
With CCAC counselors. Even Sapphire felt powerless to speak with Dean Yvonne Burns of CCAC. Sapphire has repeatedly failed her classes at CCAC. Sapphire has been afraid to make friends. Sapphire deserves to have leaders that are honest, responsible, accountable, to learn how to be strong, and empowered to have a voice.
Take a stand against bullying. Sincerely, Jason Khanlar (jason.khanlar@gmail.com) (920.659.0029)

It has been approximately 653 days (not to dyslexicly confused with 365 days (1 year)) since the peak of the abuse, the beginning of your alienation and isolation, the beginning for which you have diverted your respects to satisfy your abusers.

Your aunt tonight was comfortable to share words with another man who was nearby stating simply suggesting that I am trouble, as well as threatening to call police. I am confident that the severity of your being abused is principally sustained that by which your abusers strive to complicate and disrupt any effort to discuss or discourage the abuse. There is a scientifically and logically explainable reason for this. Too, there are explanations that may relate to that which you continue to remain ignorant, neglectful and silent, especially that which may relate to your being afraid of losing what you have been provided by your abusers, and being afraid to consider that you would be able to achieve having those things without submitting to abuse, or that you would not be able to obtain those things on your own without being abused.

p.s. Sorry for misspelling 'hostility'

My concerns are more than just about women's rights movements, and the nature for you to have rightsdirectly regarding your having female anatomy. My concerns are about the principal natures in which all humans have rights, including that as manifestedly realized as pertaining to from our families and friends. Whether you are bullied from a schoolmate, a teacher/instructor/professor, a stranger, a family member, a parent, an intimate partner, or any other human relation, you have rights to logically and confidently stand up for and respect those rights, to be treated with kindness, with dignity, with integrity, with responsibility, with accountability, with authenticity, with genuinity, with prestige, with admiration, with honor, with respect. You have the right to be free and wonderful with confidence and to be empowered to achieve and succeed satisfying your dreams, goals, interests without disruption and interference by those who engage in abusive bullying behaviorisms.

Surely, this is not a fabricated story. You are a real, living, human being, a citizen of United States, born and raised, a human just like myself, a human that is equally capable as any other human.
Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

Stand up against the blackmail brainwashing bullying that your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice has been consistently manipulating you with.

Where are you gonna go? Certainly your mother has made you afraid that anywhere other than living with your mother is more dangerous than living with your mother.

Hence, blackmail.

We know this.

You have proclaimed that your mother had threatened you, that she had made you afraid that if you move out, or reach out to others to leave, that your mother will never speak to you again, amongst other manipulations.

Certainly it is quite an obvious lie, dishonesty, and abuse.

There are so many wonderful experiences, wonderful opportunities to sustain and survive and live, including at one's own confidence and empowerment and success.

Surely you will be far more successful if you abandon the abuse rather than sustain the abuse.

This is scientific, not faith-based. There is so much evidence.

If you do what bullies say, you empower the bully.

Stop fueling the bullies.

Respect yourself. Have dignity and confidence. Be smart.

Note: John Mcclure, your previous close friend, surely has exhibited many corrupted wisdoms, despite his repeatedly emphasized statement to me, you and others arrogantly asserting that he is wise. Certainly his advocacy encouraging you to repest your biological mother, and sustain the abuse is definitely not wise, despite that it may relate to his interest to perhaps contribute to corrupted exploitation of you that otherwise may disappear if you learn to respect yourself and realize that you have rights, have a voice, have the freedom to make your own choices and enjoy your interests, desires, etc without discrimination, disruption, discouragement, etc.

Free yourself!

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Monday, March 21, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

"In most games when a player is caught cheating, he forfeits." - http://justicegazette.org/has-hillary-won-anything.html

Similarly, your biological mother has lied, threatened, cheated you out of the respect, the confidence, the esteem, the dignity, the integrity, the intelligence, and many other things that you deserve.

You do not need to submit to your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice.

You do not need to let your biological mother nor any other human know your facebook.com password, your email password, and passwords to your other accounts.

You do not need to let your biological mother regularly use your Internet accounts to make sure that you comply with her coercive requests to disrespect and reject any human that she feels worthy of discriminating against, lying to, threatening with profanities, hate speech, violence, etc.

You do not need to remain silent, keep your head down, and be afraid of violence or being punished by abusers who threaten to take away from you all that they have given you as if to give the illusion that you are left with nothing without those persons.

Stand up.

Respect yourself.

Have dignity.

Have integrity.

Learn to be a decent, respectable, kind-hearted, intelligent and successful human being.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Friday, March 18, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

You are part of the future.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Thursday, March 17, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

During April or May 2014, you had physically assaulted me.

You had physically assaulted me as a direct response for which your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice had escalated her false accusations and threats of me. Upon my unacceptance of being treated so disrespectfully, I had stood up and prepared to leave, remove myself from the hostile environment.

To this day, for the last approximately 645 you have sustained enabling and cooperating with those who have contributed to the hostilities and violences and have encouraged various persons involved, as well as others who were not involved, to continue to sustain the disrespects, the lies, the threats, and contribute to others to advocate hatred and violence.

Others unrelated to or unknowing of you, throughout my life have contributed similarly in other circumstances.

I continue to stand up expressing concern of nonviolence and to have dignity and integrity to exhibit responsibility and accountability.

Will you stand up and show respect, accoutnability, responsibility, dignity and integrity as well?

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Monday, March 14, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

Do not be afraid of your abusers.

Do not be afraid to not abuse others by learning from your abusers.

Stand up and be strong.

Please have dignity and integrity.

Be a leader, a hero, to yourself, and to all other persons who are on the autistic spectrum and bullied, abused,violated, etc. just like you.



Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

You have the right to respect yourself.

Who benefits from your silence of being abused, lied to, threatened?

Please don't race to the bottom. Challenge yourself to rise up and stand proudly and confidently.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

You can break free from the special interests of your biological mother and others that prey off of your vulnerabilities and your silence such that they continue to enable lying, threats, abuse, or contribute to lying, threats and abuse to you and others directly.

You can do it because many other human existences have done so.

Do not be afraid.

Have a voice.

Have a soul.

Be kind to yourself.

Be kind to others.

Do unto others as others do unto you (but do not exhibit violence or hatred as others exhibit towards you, instead, boycott, protest against those people, and most effectively do so by exit strategy. You have neglected and ignored me for over 640 days because of threats by your biological mother and family. Certainly it is more logical and rational to neglect and ignore those abusive persons instead.

Don't let your life be rigged, controlled, oppressed, tyrannized.

Appropriately respect and love yourself and others please.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

Your biological mother may enjoy to abuse, bully, lie, cheat and steal her way to support you, and especially discourage you from asking her any questions to determine truths, and to respect the things she offers to you, whilst also exhibiting hatred, disgust, false accusations, threats, violence, vulgarity to others that do ask her any questions, as well as threaten you that if you ever engage in such before, that if you ever exhibit responsible or accountable behaior or expect your mother to exhibit accountable or responsible behavior, that you would be dismissed, kicked out, rejected, abandoned, neglected, outcast, abolished from your family, and that your mother would never speak to you again.

Certainly that doesn't seem like fun.

What are the benefits?

What is the appeal?

What is the attraction?

What is it that your biological mother provides for you that is not possible for any other person to provide for you?

Do you find bullying attractive?

Is it exciting?

Is it challenging?

Are you happy?

I had asked you if you were happe two years ago, you had repeatedly stated that you were not happy, yet you have continuously engaged in celebrating and participating with your biological mother.


With regards to civil crimes against humanity, why?

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect

Sincerely,
Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

I want to inspire you to recognize respect, care, love, appreciation, support, enabling, encouragement, inspiration, etc. by:

exhibiting leadership qualities such as that of being responsible, accountable, ethical, moral, honest, having dignity, integrity, consistency, achieving success, learning, educating, improving, advancing, developing successfully, etc.

and not by:

lying to you, threatening you, bullying you, accusing you, brainwashing you, fearmongering you, hatemongering you, exploiting you, extorting you, showcasing malice towards you, compromising you, discouraging you, disrupting you, threatening you, violating you, abusing you, bullying you, ignoring you, neglecting you, disrespecting you, rejecting you, alienating you, forcing you, coercing you, etc.

Would you be so kind to take notice if you are so courageous again?

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

Let us stand together, united, in solidarity, with integrity and dignity.



Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

Violence, coercion, lying, the use of force, use of profanity, etc. should be a last resort (or even not a resort at all given the nature of resolution which comes before any of those things), not the first resort.

Your biological mother, and enablingly and supportively by many of your friends and family, has and continued to use violence, coercion, lying, threats, profanities, derogatory statements, hatemongering, fearmongering, delusionality, hostility, etc. and had exhibited an abrupt immediacy of such relative to that being a first resort.

Please stand up to defend yourself and your loved ones to exhibit responsible, accountable, dignified and integrified quality of character, and to connect with one another in solidarity to have a voice and not participate in or enable or condone bullying or violence. Please do not contribute to conquering and dividing. Please contribute to working together and respecting and appreciating one another.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Saturday, March 12, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

Real change doesn't happen from the top on down.

Real change happens from the grassroots level.

If you want to convince your biological mother to respect you, and recognize your right to have rights, you have to stand up against the bullying and abuse and demand that you be respected to have rights.

Don't let hypocrites deprive and disrupt you.

Don't let sociopaths discourage or undermine you.

Stand up.

Respect yourself.

Predators that prey on exploiting your silence are not going to rationally encourage and support for you to have rights to speak out about their abuses.

Your biological mother is not going to all of a sudden respect you having for so many years throughout her and your life exhibited abuse after abuse, lie after lie, threat after threat.

You have to demand it and respect yourself and break free from the tyranny.

The pain and outcries from those that have and continue to be disrespected by your family and your continued silence and relative disrespects deserve it.

You deserve to respect yourself.

You deserve to be a good, kind, respectful human being.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

The similarities of your biological mother's behavior and that of Donald Drumpf's behavior, such as showcased in http://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow/watch/escalating-aggression-marks-trump-s-rhetoric-642743363967 are continually concerning.

Too, the relative nature of your support, as also showcased by the support of those around you, including Stephen Sevananda Rice, Chandrika Rice, and others in your circle of friends and family are similarly as concerning.

I express again, as I have before, and as you had previously expressed to me as well, that I am not a bad person. I have not engaged in or indulged in fearmongering, hatemongering, or encouraging violence. Especially I have repeatedly expressed concern to stand up against such bullying, and to not be involved, as well as relatively expressed to you similarly, to not be involved.

Why you are not or have not taken action to break free from the similarly patterns of abuse and corruption, I do not understand, other than perhaps that which may suggest that you benefit from or otherwise enjoy to indulge in such cultural behaviorisms, including that of expressing or supporting hatred, including that which is not at your own efforts, but exhibited by those that you support, respect, enable and empower to behave as involving your relations and affiliations.

Too, I consider the plausible deniability or plausibile difficulty for which being on the autistic spectrum complictes your nature of being supportive or nonsupportive, but too, of any mentality, of any disability, of any complexity, it is important to consider the relevant simplicities of abuses that occur to not complacently disregard them, and to consider the value of what they mean, and what it means to accept and continue them.

Please take a stand dear Sapphire Welka. Please respect yourself and respect those others who encourage standing together, respecting one another, loving one another, appreciating one another, more so than those who enjoy to divide and conquer with hatemongering, fearmongering, lying, threats, bullying and other abuses.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

I have never exhibited violence upon you.

I have never threatened you.

I have never lied to you.

I have never coerced or forced you.

I have never gaslighted you.

I have never discriminated against you.

I have never bullied you.

I have never abused you.

Why are you yet another human who engages in supporting, enabling and respecting those who exhibit those behaviors towards me?

Am I not good enough for you to communicate more than 0.00000000 English language words with or have any form of communication or contact with as a response to your life being threatened and violated by abusive persons?



Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Friday, March 11, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

Re: Divide and Conquer, what your biological mother has enjoyed with regards to consistently abusing, exploiting and manipulating you, but making sure to single you out with nobody to help you or support you or respect you or enable you first.

I consider that you would never indulge in participating with or supporting the Ku Klux Klan.

but maybe you would.

I consider that you would never indulge in participating with or supporting Donald Drumpf and his relative hatemongering and relative reincarnation of Ku Klux Klan uprisings.

but maybe you would.

I consider that you would never indulge in participating with or supporting hatred, hatemongering, fearmongering.

but maybe you would.

I considered that you would never indulge in participating with or supporting the dishonesty, abuse, bullying, oppression and tyranny of your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice.

but you have, consistently, for quite a long time (635+ days), and with little to no public or transparently open questioning or expressed concern or outcry, the crying out to me privately, certainly leading to significant bullying, hatred and abuse directed to me for speaking out, especially with your continued silence as if to perhaps show comfort in and acceptance with that I am abused and bullied for having tried to stand up for your right to be respected, to have freedom, to have a voice, to be treated with dignity, integrity and improve your confidence and ability to exhibit accountable and responsible behavior.

I am still alive, and I have not exhibited any of those abusive behaviorisms to you or others, despite the continued dishonesty and disingenuity for which irresponsible lying continues to occur, all the while sustainably so based primarily on your continued silence, insecurity, and fear of those depending on you to remain silent indefinitely, or at least for as long as possible, given your opportunity to break free from the abuse at any time.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

John Mcclure

November 15, 2014 John Mcclure stated to me suggesting to "get a hooker" which I interpreted as significantly disrespectful especially relative to the nature of your being significantly bullied, abused, threatened, lied to, etc. as instantiated by your biological mother.

Certainly John Mcclure is not the only human existence who has contributed to disrespecting me, you, and others, and relatively contributing to encouraging the nature of your sustaining tolerating, accepting and enabling maintaining residing withinin the abusive environment, for which you have essentially complied, whether or not complacently or intelligently.

Certainly it is not the only mean thing he has stated to me, and certainly he is not the only human existence to have contributed various degrees of disrespectfulnesses and ignorances and neglectfulnesses for which you likely were influenced and impressioned to sustain the abuse.

Nonetheless, I sustain consistently encouraging for you to take a stand, to stand up, to rise up, to empower yourself to respect yourself, to have confidence, to succeed, to improve your sociological and psychological well being.

Surely you may remember prior to June 2014, you and I had interacted fairly appreciably of one another, and then one day you abruptly stopped as directly related to your being threatened and abused and essentially violated as if to convince (brainwash) you that you are lesser than those who have violated and dismissed you as inferior or lesserly qualified of respects as those who mistreat you.

Certainly I am not a loser, despite those who have stated such to you, suggested such to you, convinced such to you, brainwashed such to you (by means of repetition and relatively dishonest and manipulative threats and false accusations). Nonetheless, certainly too, the relation, affiliation and communication between you and I has been lost, disrupted, blocked, censored, punished, deprived, as if to allocate idea that I am a toxic person. Yet the nature of those individuals involved are plausibly toxic. Right? Wrong? Doesn't matter?

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Sunday, March 6, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

Your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice is not too big to fail. You do not have to punish yourself to comply with her cruel and abusive demands. You do not have to nor can you bail your biological mother out from establishing a sense of accountability or responsibility. Too, the nature of accountability and responsibility of yourself is considerably concerning relative to you or others to bail you out or your own nature of being or nor being too big to fail.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Saturday, March 5, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

I first saw this video by Stefan Molyneux maybe 7-8 years ago. I hope you get better some day.



Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar
Dear Sapphire Welka,

Can you convert the concepts of physical invasion portrayed in this video to psychological, mental and sociological invasion to perhaps explain the nature of your situation as involving being bullied, abused, threatened, disrespected, disrupted, deprived, insecurely protected (re: security through obscurity) by your biological mother and sustainably enabled by some others who contribute to the same?



Too, consider the same as applicable to myself, and all other humans just as well.

Note: It has been over 600 days since you have communicated anything to me, despite your continued communication and interaction with those who exhibit abusive behaviorisms. Please respect yourself and your loved ones responsibly and accountably.

Note 2: These are just words (and a video). Actions are more valuable than words.

Surely you are intelligent and competent enough to recognize the nature in which when you had stated to me that your aunts Lorraine Heagy and Janice Heagy, and others in your family and friends of family stated to you that I am bad person, yet you stated to me that you thought that I was not a bad person is perhaps reflective of the relative nature of mental invasion, predatory invasion, forms of manipulation, brainwashing, including that in which those persons who stated such to you had little to no involvement with me, perhaps as a representation of disrespectful ignorance and negligence, despite the sustainability of such in terms of compromising the nature of others functionalities, behaviorisms, and permitted experiencesof others such as yourself.

Surely your self proclaimed gullibiliy is relevant to such manipulativenesses. Right?

Surely your consistent inconsistency is related. Right?

Surely you are capable of freeing yourself upon the realization that enough is enough and that you are free to break away from the abusive persons to recognize that you can support yourself and empower yourself, entirely independent of anyone offering to help, including those who may offer who may also be predatorily, toxicly, or parasitically composed (including myself). Right?

Sincerely,
Jason Khanlar

Tuesday, March 1, 2016

Dear Sapphire Welka,

I watched this John Oliver coverage of Donald Trump



and recognize many similarities in Donald Trump's behavior, dishonest and bullying to your biological mother, relative to her extremely abrupt usage of profanities, hostilities, false police accusations, threats, and many other things.

Surely when you repeatedly stated to me that you are afraid of your biological mother, there is much value and worth to consider it.

You should open up more and not be afraid of your mother to break free from her abusive cultural behaviorisms or the paradigm with which it may seem acceptable to enable and support such in favor of disabling and ignoring those who speak out disclosing the abuses.

Certainly you have not respected yourself in the last 626 days, perhaps similarly represented as to your nature of disrespecting yourself since the first day that I met you.

You had stated to me at one time that you are "consistently inconsistent."

Surely, that also likely relates to the nature of behavior of Donald Trump, and certainly is poor quality of leadership with respect to those who do not integrate abuse and bullying into their way of life.

Note: I evaluate and identify your ~626 days of ignoring and neglecting me as representative of your nature of supporting and enabling culture of bullying as way of life, including that of disrespecting one's self including ignoring and neglecting natural principals of sustainably encouraging sociological and cognitive well being, both for one's self as well as encouraged, impressioned and inspired upon others. Surely you may want to question authority if you has more than 0 dignity and integrity and not if you do not favor or consider integrity or dignity as necessary or of any perceived value or worth.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar