Dear Sapphire Welka,

I wish you were confident to stand up against bullying and not be so manipulated to disrespect yourself and others who encourage you to respect yourself and realize to not be bullied by those who like to disrupt you with lies, threats, abuses, etc.


Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Dear Sapphire Welka,

Let's get together, let's re-unite, or your oppressors will do whatever they like.



Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Dear Sapphire Welka,



Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Dear Sapphire Welka,



Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Dear Sapphire Welka,

In case you, your friends (who are your friends again? what does "friend" mean?) and family forgot about some of my concerns relative to your well being:

Stephanie Jean Rice to me March 27th, 2014: And seriously Jason YOU HAVE WORMS!

Stephanie Jean Rice to me April 11th, 2014: She owes 780 if 1 D. Do u think I believe that a flunkie drop out is really tutoring in chem and trig? Absolutely no sleepovers until only A's and B's. I know you're playing around up there and not studying. This stops today. You might want to live off the government pretending to have microbes for the rest of your poverty stricken life. You know better. Wtf. She's 20 and has a future. You're lazy and giving up. Not ok.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me April 11th, 2014: She told me she wasn't studying. Don't be a total asshole. I've known you 2 years. All you've done is be a lazy, deluded, wastoid. Drop out of college. Won't try to get a job. Won't go to a psychologist or take meds to cure your imaginary bullshit. You play around online all day and abuse the social security system. I'm super disappointed in you.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me April 11th, 2014: Your miserable attitude and beliefs are bringing sapphire down. Her mood, grades, ability to enjoy life, self care, health, everything. You're 33. She's 20. You should not be hanging with her to 1am, nor staying over. She doesn't want to be sad and poverty stricken her entire life. You should evaluate how you've been being. Its bad for her, and for yourself.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me April 25th, 2014: I don't give a shit tho. Who cares? Encrypt my ass. They have not found a way to extract and imprison the soul, or to keep one in the body forever. So fb and gubbment can suck it.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me April 27th, 2014: Even if you made 100000 a year, you could die, become disabled, break up, etc with her. She needs a solid base for being able to support herself. She has hopes and dreams. I'm not going to let her fuck that up.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me May 2nd, 2014: You are the virus spreader, obviously I was stupid to open an email from you with a video [ http://youtu.be/F4NDE_4JU3k ], thanks a bunch. Don't email me. Use your facebook.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me June 9th, 2014: Jason sent my some psycho rambling texts. He said you're trying to convince us he is not malicious. None of your family needs convinced of anything. We all see his actions and words. He's a nut. No job no college no car no home not trying to get well, no future. Nobody wants you to date him because he is a miserable, lazy, rude, wastoid. We are all old and wise enough to see how bad he is being. Nobody would ever want their smart beautiful happy daughter to date someone like him.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me June 9th, 2014: I let her make her own choices as she is an adult, but noone wants her to date you. Take a good look at yourself.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me June 10th, 2014: The truth isn't slander. Look up the definition. Leave me alone.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me June 11th, 2014: Look, you're a rude disrespectful lazy leech wastoid and I really don't want you around my home or my daughter. I've known you for approx 2 years, and really would have rather never met you. Quit texting me. There's nothing to discuss. I wish you'd go back to wisconsin.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me June 12th, 2014: Stay away from my daughter. You're not welcome in my home. If you continue to text me, after this third request to stop, I will start procedure for phone harassment.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me June 14th, 2014: Sapphire sat down with me and we got rid of your ugly persona. Goodbye, give up, sapphire is going to stay w relatives to keep away from your lunatic bullshit. she doesn't need a lowlife like you ruining her life. Do not ever contact us again. Final warning. Stay away.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me June 14th, 2014: She is leaving the state. Your are a dispicable excuse for a man. Leave us alone. Go manipulate and leech off of someone else.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me and Amanda Lynora Rose Heimerman June 14th, 2014: She blocked him and removed his friends. She changed her number. She is going to live with relatives out of state and signed up at a new college. Its over. The only problem now is this mentally ill person won't quit harrassing me and my husband and her.

Stephanie Jean Rice to my biological mother June 27th, 2014: You son NEEDS mental help. He is stalking my daughter and harassing my family. He just won't quit. We have filed multiple police reports and if he steps foot on our property, or is found staring at our house in the middle of he night, he is going to be arrested. The police have already warned him in person. We had to send my daughter to stay with relatives because of Jason's increasingly psychotic behaviors. He just will not quit harassing us. My daughter, my husband, and I have told him to leave us alone 100 times, yet he continues to text, email, stalk, and post ridiculous delusion crap all over the internet. The dean of CCAC has issued him a warning that if he continues to stalk and bother Sapphire, he will be banned from campus.
You son needs a mental health facility and to get on some medication. Please do something for him. He won't get the help he needs in jail.

Stephanie Jean Rice to me the day after Father's Day 2014: What the FUCK?!?! (looks at me when I see her) FUUUUUCK YYYYOOOOOUUUU!!!! (with ugly angry face)

Stephanie Jean Rice to me in the presence of Kerri Elitzer July 2nd, 2015: I wish you would fuck off and die

- first message -
Stephanie Jean Rice to me January 22nd, 2013: Good. Sapphire speaks highly of you. were all cool with you. sorry if youre butt hurt over the cologne thing. just sensitive to alcohol based perfumes. we are down with hanging out.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar

Dear Sapphire Welka,

From since I met you in 2012 until June 2014, it was wonderful to communicate (and interact) with you on an almost daily basis. It was wonderful to be friendly towards each other. Unfortunately, since June 2014, you had abruptly ceased communications, interactions and all things pertaining to my existence, and as you had mentioned to me, as directly related to your being pressured and threatened to avoid, neglect and reject me for all circumstances. The climate had changed.

Nonetheless, I would like to thank you, despite that it is not only a result of my experiences with you, but in which you have played a substantially significant, influential and important role for me to realize the severity of the culture of bullying. Again, as I have stated on various occasions and I continue to reflect upon: You have practically never (from September 2012 up until approximately April of 2014, and crucially as of June 2014):

• lied to me
• threatened me
• harassed me
• intimidated me
• coerced me
• gaslighted me
• violated me
• forced me
• exhibited violence towards me
• used profanities or derogatory statements to me
• discredited me
• disrespected me
• denounced me
• undermined my dignity and integrity and cognitive and sociological well being
• neglected me
• rejected me
• conditioned me
• predatorily (as opposed to respectfully) sexualized friends of mine, or past friends of mine 

but as lead by your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice, and practically immediately and increasingly enabled and supported by many others including notably Stephen Sevananda Rice, Candrika Rice, Raymond Patrick Allen, John Mcclure, Matt Herceg, but certainly not limited to, certainly I have experienced many of those behaviorisms from each of those persons, including that which sustains a defamatory representation of myself, including within the bubble or circle of relations with which you are sustainably punished and threatened from having any affiliation, contact or communicate with me, including that which you had informed me that if you ever were to live with me, that your mother would kick you out and never speak to you again.

It is a rather unfortunate circumstance, and especially it is relative to your being on the autistic spectrum. Too, it is unfortunate that one of the last things that you had stated to me was your asserting repeatedly that you are stupid.

I am confident that you have a soul. (In the last couple months, upon being bullied by one person in which that person's friends and peers jumped in to contribute to additional disrespectful, rude and dishonest claims about me, but to be defended by one person, only laterly for that person to convey to me that they did not know who I was, or that I was not their friend, or even their explicit statement suggesting that they had no soul and didn't care)

I am confident that you have dignity.

I am confident that you have integrity.

I am confident that you are able to respect yourself and to stand up for and defend yourself, and to not succumb to ridicule, hatred, bullying or other compromising and corrupted exploitations.

But too, I am confident of those things about myself as well, and for that I thank you.

I thank you for helping me to strengthen my realization that I, Jason Khanlar, matter. That my opinions matter. That my friends matter. That my relations matter. That my effort to strive to succeed and accomplish and achieve wonderful things matters. That my progress and development and learning new and practicing existing skills and incorporating those skills into my life experiences matters. That with confidence, I can realize my potential and respectfully sustain and preserve it.

I wish that you were so kind to respect yourself and to realize such things, and not only of me, but of any and all persons that you affiliate and interact with.

I am confident that the domestically abusive environment which you conditionally sustain yourself in will inevitably lead to your own leadership of employing relevant abusive skills to impact upon others through their own unfortunate and discomforting, perhaps even debilitating (for those who rely and depend upon you as a leader to look up to and admire) experiences.

I want to say nice things about you, as I had previously done before you had disappeared from my life as forced upon you by your biological mother, to which you complacenctly complied, despite my repeated cries and pleas for you to realize the abuses and steps you could take to avoid them.

I would like to think that you are not a corrupted human, and that you too, can excel at respecting yourself, doing well in school, passing your classes, getting a respectful job, pursuing a responsible and accountable career, independently and strengthenedly representing yourself both morally and ethically as a responsible and accountable human being with value, purpose and worth, including self-worth, to know that you and others speaking on your behalf, about you, both publicly and privately, are boosting your reputation as a wonderful and decent human being.

I miss experiencing those qualities, even if I was delusional, as your biological mother had so inaccurately and disrespectfully asserted to me, amongst various other nasty claims both to me as well as to yourself, in which, if you remember, I had effortfully discussed those things with you in detail, to which you had agreed with me, despite not having taken steps or actions to do anything about them.

Too, I reflect upon your peers and friends as perhaps considering the same, at least for those who do not integrate threats, profanities, etc (see list above) into the list of behaviors that they resort to into their and others' lifestyle experiences.

Please respect yourself dear Sapphire Welka.

Maybe one day you may realize and reflect upon the nature of such things such that you could perhaps thank me and others for helping you to realize how to escape the domestic and systemically patternistic abuse.

Until then, bee well.


Sincerely,

Your friend,
Jason Khanlar

Dear Sapphire Welka,

There are many aspects to the abusive situation in which your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice has repeatedly and substantially lied to you, threatened you, bullied you, gaslighted you, myself, and others. I am similar disappointed in various persons involved in the situation with regards to accountability and responsibility.

One such person who has perhaps been critically impressionable and influential for you is your stepsister Candrika Rice (Candrika Rhys). As I first reached out to Candrika to explain my concerns about the unfortunate abusive situation, she seemed receptive. And to match what you, Sapphire Welka, had laterly written in your journal, Candrika stated to me "weird.. probably stephanies doing. i just mesaged sapphire on facebook and will ask when she replies."

To the best of my knowledge and cognitive understanding of reality, I certainly believe that it is true, Sapphire Welka, that your biological mother Stephanie Jean Rice has been pulling the strings and employing propagandic hatemongering to use her social relations with loved ones, family and friends to smear, undermine and discredit and defame myself (as well as any concerns you are permitted to have).


Even now, Candrika Rice, and for a long while since she had blocked me shortly after the chat dialog below, she had been conditioned or otherwise influenced to give up on the concern of abuse that I had expresed, and has resorted to ignorance and neglect as if to advocate that my concerns do not matter, or also even to convince Sapphire Welka to not stand up for herself or her interests or be concerned about the abuse, because if she does, then she may possibly be treated as I have been, with continued hate speech directed towards me, continued lies, threats, and other disrespectful things.


For 19 months, ever since your biological mother has bullied you, lied to you, threatened to kick you out of your home if you showed any attention towards me, amongst many other unpleasantries that I am confident had resulted in your crying and other despairing experiences, various persons involved in your life have not shown any interested to exhibit dignity, integrity, responsibility and accountability to care about my concerns and probably also ont care about your concerns.

Logically I consider that it is essentially a product of persons in your life being primarily compromised with bullying compatibility, and the nature of conditioning persons to be susceptible and receptive to being bullied, take advantage of, fearmongered, and defended against anyone that tries to reveal the bullying abuse.

Certainly I am quite familiar with the severity of which Stephanie Jean Rice, Stephen Sevananda Rice, Candrika Rice, Matt Herceg, John Mcclure, Raymond Patrick Allen, and various others have exhibited disrespect to show accountable and responsible behavior.

I am rather disappointed by the nature in which you, Sapphire Welka, the most important person in all of these matters, a person with whom I have consistently expressed concern towards, a person had previously repeatedly shown concern herself particularly as brought to my attention, the nature of you succumbing to disrespecting yourself, but also myself.

I have considered the plausibility of which perhaps you, your family, and others may not respect my concern (as well as your previous efforts to show concern, which have surely been punished and reprimanded similarly as mine have) because perhaps you may not be perceived as having the credentials, the reputation, the prestige, the success to be treated as such. But really, all you need is dignity, confidence, certainty and a prosperity to realize that not all humans, even not your parents, may be honorably and respectfully behaved.

Sincerely,

Jason Khanlar